When you choose to forgive the same people over and over again you do so because you don't want to believe your time loving them was wasted. Bad relationships over time can become investments, that are hard to let go of. The key to freedom is to realize that love is never wasted. The only thing wasted in life is the time you spend focusing on an unhappy situation that will never change to fit your needs, and not realizing the true investment of time and love are the lessons God wanted you to learn. . Shannon L. Alder
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This quote comes from the book, The Road Less Traveled , by M. Scott Peck, who popularized the idea of the "perennial philosophy." Peck explains that we resist love because we believe that love is wasted on someone who won't change. We think that if our lover still loves us, then he or she should change. But love doesn't work this way because it's not something you can change. If your lover doesn't change, it's because he or she is willing to waste love on you.

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